From Busy to Bliss: How to Ditch the Doing
Intro
Action is the name of the game, and this week, I’m diving deep into why moving your body is the secret sauce to feeling more alive and kicking those brain fog blues to the curb!
I learned the hard way that just being busy doesn’t cut it; it’s all about intentional action, and let me tell you, I’ve had my fair share of “throwing mud at the wall” moments.
We’re chatting about how taking a proper walk can work wonders, and why it’s crucial to check in with what’s actually working in our lives instead of just grinding away.
So grab your favourite snack—Hobnobs, anyone?—and settle in as we explore how slowing down sometimes sets the stage for speeding up, and how we can all get a bit clearer on what we really want!
The Detail
Heather Masters takes us on a rollercoaster ride through the wild world of action (and inaction) in this episode of Choosing Happy!
With her trademark playful tone, she recounts her past year of relentless hustle, where she was buried under a mountain of tasks without a clear direction. Imagine a pizza, but a pizza that’s also a metaphor for feeling a bit lost – that’s how Heather describes her state of mind.
It’s a relatable, funny narrative that sets the stage for a discussion about the importance of meaningful action in our lives.
As we plunge into the meaty core of the episode, Heather shares her newfound wisdom on how just being busy doesn’t equate to being productive. She tackles the buzzword ‘consistency’ and offers a refreshing perspective: it’s not just about showing up every day; it’s about showing up with intention. Are we doing things that matter, or are we just hiding behind a flurry of activity?
With her infectious enthusiasm, Heather encourages us to assess our actions and make sure they align with our goals.
She’s all about finding that sweet spot where action meets intention, and it’s a revelation that feels like a warm hug on a chilly day!
By the end of this episode, listeners are left feeling invigorated and ready to tackle their own action plans with clarity.
Heather wraps it up with a challenge that’s as delightful as it is thought-provoking: take a moment to identify one action in your life that’s just a cover for avoidance. It’s a little nudge to help us all move forward with purpose, and who doesn’t love a good nudge?
So, grab your favourite snack, kick back, and get ready to embrace the joyful chaos of life with Heather’s insights on action and intention!
Chapters:
- 00:13 - The Power of Action in Creativity
- 01:55 - Reflections on Consistency and Action
- 05:51 - Finding Clarity in Action
- 09:32 - Building Systems vs. Being Busy
- 11:48 - Finding Your Intentional Action
Takeaways:
- Action is the magic ingredient that transforms ideas into reality, so get moving!
- Sometimes the best thing to do is to slow down and listen to your own needs.
- Being busy doesn't always equate to being productive; focus on what truly matters instead.
- Intentional action is where the real progress happens, rather than just doing for the sake of it.
- Finding clarity in your goals can turn frantic activity into meaningful achievements.
- It's crucial to differentiate between genuine action and mere busywork to avoid burnout.
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Transcript
Hello and welcome to the Choosing Happy Podcast, one of the Hobnobs and Happiness episodes.
Speaker A:I want to talk to you today about action, about moving, doing, making things happen.
Speaker A:And I want to tell you the truth about it, because I learned the truth the hard way last year.
Speaker A:It came up in my creative writing world this week, of all places in the show, don't tell this idea that action is what pulls a reader into into a book.
Speaker A:You don't tell someone a character is brave.
Speaker A:You show them doing a brave thing.
Speaker A:And a good story always opens with action.
Speaker A:Something happens and you're in it.
Speaker A:And I found myself thinking that that's true of almost everything.
Speaker A:It's even true of AI, funnily enough.
Speaker A:And it's true of us, in our bodies and our minds.
Speaker A:And this is the part I believe in my bones now, that when we move, we come come back to life.
Speaker A:There's an aliveness and energy about us because our muscles need it, our general energy and aliveness needs it, our heads need it.
Speaker A:And movement burns off the brain fog.
Speaker A:When you go for a proper walk somewhere around the 20 minute mark, the thing you were looping on or were tangled in just unwinds and you feel more alive.
Speaker A:At least I do.
Speaker A:And I know that's true for me.
Speaker A:Action matters.
Speaker A:It can help and it can hinder an overwhelm.
Speaker A:So.
Speaker A:So grab a copper, grab your snack, your Hobnobs, and take your seat.
Speaker A:Because that's what I'm going deep into in this week's Happiness and Hobnobs episode of the Choosing Happy Podcast.
Speaker A:Hello and welcome.
Speaker A:I'm Heather Masters, your host, and I know both sides of the action algorithm because last year we.
Speaker A:A bit of an eye opener for me.
Speaker A:Let me tell you what last year actually looked like, because I don't want to tidy it up and put sparkles on it where there weren't any.
Speaker A:In the latter half of last year, I was at my desk for 12 hours a day most days, and I said yes to every challenge, every boot camp that came past, and I was churning out content, absolute piles of it, with no real strategy behind any of it.
Speaker A:I was literally throwing that mud at the wall.
Speaker A:I dropped my morning routine completely.
Speaker A:There was no fitness, no meditation.
Speaker A:I just got up, walked the dogs and went straight to the screen.
Speaker A:I even dropped my coffee and Hobnobs break.
Speaker A:Plus I was eating whatever was quick, which meant whatever that was, was rubbish.
Speaker A:Honestly, I got to the point where I started to look a bit like a pizza.
Speaker A:And I say that with love for myself, because I can laugh about it now.
Speaker A:At the time, I couldn't see it at all.
Speaker A:I piled on the weights, I felt sluggish and I blamed it on the weather, of course.
Speaker A:And here's where I want to challenge something, because this is the bit that nearly broke me.
Speaker A:Consistency.
Speaker A:And I've spoken about this before, it's the big word, isn't it?
Speaker A:It's popular at the moment.
Speaker A:Post for a year and it'll take off.
Speaker A:Just keep showing up every day and it'll happen.
Speaker A:And there is truth in it.
Speaker A:I won't pretend there isn't, because consistency is.
Speaker A:And there's a piece that almost gets left out.
Speaker A:And that's the sense.
Speaker A:Check stopping every so often task, what's actually working and what isn't, what needs improving?
Speaker A:And the really uncomfortable question underneath that one, do you even know what you're measuring or what to measure?
Speaker A:Because I didn't.
Speaker A:I was consistent as anything.
Speaker A:I was so consistent at a whole pile of things I'd never once checked were getting results or were worth doing.
Speaker A:And there's something cruel in that, especially if you're one of the conscientious ones, one of the determined perfectionists amongst us, and I suspect a lot of you listening who are content creators probably are.
Speaker A:If you've never actually defined what enough looks like, then nothing you do will ever feel like enough.
Speaker A:You'll always feel like you're falling short, or worse, like you're not good enough.
Speaker A:It isn't that you're not good enough though, is it?
Speaker A:It's that you've never set the bar, so you're forever failing to reach a line that you can't even see.
Speaker A:And that was me, endlessly busy, endlessly not measuring up.
Speaker A:And the two things were connected because for all that effort, all those hours, the clients weren't coming, the boot camps weren't filling, the training wasn't filling.
Speaker A:I was busier than I'd ever been and it just wasn't working.
Speaker A:And now I know exactly why.
Speaker A:I was consistent without ever being clear.
Speaker A:And that's the thing about action nobody warns you about.
Speaker A:It isn't always the good stuff.
Speaker A:There's the other side of the coin.
Speaker A:There's a kind of doing that's real and there's a kind that's just hiding.
Speaker A:When you're taking action to prove something to yourself and to others, when you're grinding away so you can feel like you're achieving, when you keep choosing the hard, exhausting route, because somewhere in you, it feels like you have to earn your worth.
Speaker A:That stops being action.
Speaker A:It becomes a stressor with a productivity mask on.
Speaker A:And I was neck deep in it and calling it commitment.
Speaker A:So as Christmas came round last year, I stopped.
Speaker A:Literally just stopped.
Speaker A:A hard stop.
Speaker A:I stopped the content that had no strategy behind it.
Speaker A:I stopped signing up for challenges and boot camps.
Speaker A:I only wanted to do so.
Speaker A:I felt that I was doing something, something.
Speaker A:And I stopped chasing a consistency that with no direction, authenticity or intention underneath it.
Speaker A:And that was frightening because when the busyness goes away, you have to actually be with yourself.
Speaker A:At the start of this year, after taking that time out, I began doing everything with intention.
Speaker A:I did less and chose more effectively.
Speaker A:I was still consistent, by the way.
Speaker A:That didn't go away.
Speaker A:I just finally knew what I was being consistent about and I actually checked whether it was working and I had a direction that I was going in.
Speaker A:I got clear on two things I genuinely wanted.
Speaker A:Getting really competent with AI and having a reason for it and letting the real me be more visible instead of hiding behind the endless output.
Speaker A:I then chose the things that served those two.
Speaker A:The right boot camps to attend where I learned more about AI and got myself back into nlp and the ones actually moving my business and the tasks that pointed where I wanted to go.
Speaker A:And the clients came and the direction came clear.
Speaker A:The thing that all the frantic doing couldn't buy me.
Speaker A:A bit of quiet and a bit of intention.
Speaker A:Just hand it over.
Speaker A:The morning routine came back with it.
Speaker A:The morning fitness, the meditation, all of it.
Speaker A:And my eating changed almost on its own once I was looking after myself again.
Speaker A:I take time now to cook from scratch and make proper food.
Speaker A:I take longer walks when my poor older dog is up to it.
Speaker A:And the funny thing is, doing less of the wrong stuff gave me room to do more of the right stuff.
Speaker A:And I have a library of content that I can always go back to and edit and reuse.
Speaker A:But I want to be careful here because this could easily curdle into just rest, just slow down.
Speaker A:And that's not actually what I mean.
Speaker A:There's discipline in it too.
Speaker A:One of my mantras is that freedom comes with discipline.
Speaker A:And some days it is generally time to stop.
Speaker A:And you have to learn to hear that in your mind, in your intuition and in your body.
Speaker A:However, some days that voice telling you to stop is only resistance and a comfy outfit.
Speaker A:And on those days you need the discipline to keep going anyway.
Speaker A:The real skill is telling the difference between a true stop and a resistance dodge.
Speaker A:And I've had to get Honest about which one I'm actually feeling on a regular basis these days.
Speaker A:If something honestly feels like too much, I don't panic about falling behind anymore.
Speaker A:I consider my audience and the content, and I trust that the work will thank me for the pause.
Speaker A:And I'll be straight with you, because I don't want to sound like I've got it all worked out.
Speaker A:I haven't.
Speaker A:I'm caught in the oldest trap there is now, and I can see myself doing it.
Speaker A:I'm so busy creating and learning that I haven't stopped to build the systems that would give me the time back.
Speaker A:Content especially.
Speaker A:I'm making it constantly.
Speaker A:And the whole time there's a far less glamorous job sitting there undone, which is setting up the process and the automated systems so it stops eating my entire week.
Speaker A:That's the sneaky thing about being busy.
Speaker A:It can stop you doing the one thing that would make you less busy.
Speaker A:Taking time to identify the systems never feels urgent because you're too deep in the doing to build it.
Speaker A:So you stay in the doing.
Speaker A:And that can happen for years sometimes.
Speaker A:And this is where I've had to get really honest.
Speaker A:Because building a system can look an awful lot like the avoidance doing I've just been moaning about.
Speaker A:But it isn't.
Speaker A:Last year's busyness produced nothing except a worn out version of me.
Speaker A:And building a system actually buys back time.
Speaker A:It's the sort of action that means automating, so there's less action later, and that's the sort worth protecting.
Speaker A:So for content, I've been following Nicholas Cole's approach to generating it and using AI as an actual assistant rather than a novelty.
Speaker A:Not to replace my voice.
Speaker A:I'm far too fond of my voice for that, and it's taken me years to get comfortable with it.
Speaker A:The system helps me to take the repetitive chain off.
Speaker A:So the part that genuinely needs me gets me the coaching and the boot camps and the part that doesn't can run without me.
Speaker A:And that's the job I'm doing this month, getting those systems in place and handing the repetitive stuff over to AI.
Speaker A:So I'm still very much in it, still taking action, still taking boot camps, still learning.
Speaker A:It's just a completely different kind of action than the pizza.
Speaker A:Yeah, and that's really what I wanted to you with.
Speaker A:Sometimes you have to slow down in order to speed up.
Speaker A:And sometimes the most productive thing you can do is to stop throwing yourself at the wall and actually listen to yourself, to your body and to your business, and to the people you serve and your family.
Speaker A:Or to my dogs, in my case, the next step almost always shows itself once you've paused enough to hear it.
Speaker A:If any of this resonates, and I suspect it might have, if you're the sort who says yes to everything, do one small thing for me this week.
Speaker A:Notice one bit of action in your life that's really just hiding or avoiding or resistance.
Speaker A:And you'll know the one the second you look at it.
Speaker A:And ask yourself, what would you do instead if you were moving with intention and strategy rather than just moving?
Speaker A:Then come and tell me what you found.
Speaker A:Message me Comment I love hearing these things.
Speaker A:And if you know someone who's running themselves into the ground right now, whether it's in business or in their life, send this episode their way.
Speaker A:It might be the very thing they needed to hear today.
Speaker A:Take care of yourself.
Speaker A:And I really mean that.
Speaker A:See you next time for Hobnobs and happiness on the Choosing Happy Podcast.
Speaker A:Thank you so much for taking the time to listen to this week's episode.
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Speaker A:It really helps the podcast.
Speaker A:All of the links are in the show notes and I look forward to seeing you next week on the Choosing Happy Podcast.
Speaker A:Sam.
